On April 19, Julie Rosinski LCSW-R,PMH, Co-Director of the WNY Postpartum Connection, Inc., joined The Anti-Stigma Coalition for a Facebook Live panelist discussion about perinatal issues and how to access resources.

Rosinski was joined by LuAnne Brown, R.N., CEO, Buffalo Prenatal Perinatal Network and Alexcia “Lexi” Harrod, Vice President/Co-Founder, Melinated Moms WNY. The panel was moderated by Matthew Smith, Executive Director, Preventionfocus, Inc.

“We need to talk about postpartum mental health in the context of a community and society issue, not just an individual issue. Untreated postpartum mental health conditions can set into motion a negative domino effect of familial and societal stressors.

Increase in disability, long term mental health conditions, negative impact on infant mental health, child abuse, marital/relational discord, increased physical illness are a few ways untreated perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADS) can cause further problems.”

Julie Rosinski LCSW-R, PMH
Co-Director, WNY Postpartum Connection

From the discussion:

“Stigma can greatly impact moms who are experiencing PMADS,” said Rosinski. “Moms are often given well-intentioned but incorrect messages by family, friends, and medical professionals that contribute to their hesitation in seeking help. They might have their concerns dismissed as ‘just baby blues,’ that this should be the happiest time of their lives, that maternity leave is like a vacation, that they will feel instantly bonded with their baby, and several other myths that are perpetuated in motherhood and parenthood.”

According to Rosinski, moms might hold a lot of shame if they have negative thoughts or feelings about being a mom or about their baby. In some cases, moms have intrusive thoughts about harm coming to the baby. They might feel a lot of shame or fear about this and not tell anyone out of fear of hospitalization or CPS involvement.

There are many systemic barriers to seeking care as well including financial barriers or difficulty in accessing healthcare coverage. Harmful stereotypes based in systemic racism can also impact mothers of color and prevent access to care. These stereotypes can result in medical harm or neglect, and professionals not effectively screening for PMADS. In our region, the lack of culturally diverse models of care and culturally and racially diverse mental health providers can also be a barrier to care.

Rosinski has worked with women who had delayed accessing care, who were trying to muscle through it, or were hoping for the depression/anxiety would lift on its own.

“I have many moms who were also very hesitant to try medication or believed that utilizing therapy or medication meant they were a failure,” she said. “Depression causes them to believe negative thoughts and narratives about themselves. Often with proper screening from their OBGYN, Midwife, or pediatrician, or sometimes with a nudge from a concerned spouse or family member, they come to therapy or start meds. Validation, normalization, and education around what they are experiencing often lifts some of the resistance and shame, making them open to engaging in care.”

Rosinksi said that PMADS do not only affect women. One in 10 fathers experience PMADS, as well as non-gestational parents in same-sex relationships, LGBTQIA+ parents, and adoptive parents. Individuals and families need to know that they are not alone, and help is available.